We all are unique individuals with our own style. Be it habits, manners, behavior, conduct, communication or nature – our individualistic approach differs from others. No two individuals can have the same reaction or thought process over a situation. There is some unique element that differentiates us from our closed ones, family, friends or the society as a whole. These differences give rise to unique aspects in our behavior. Some of these aspects are truly special, paving way for others to follow. Every individual has something to teach that can lead others with a good example. Call it nature, behavior, attitude or approach – there is some unique flavor to this conduct that can inspire others to a great extent.
A quick look around your own surrounding can open your eyes to the reality of this title. Right from our parents with their strong support to siblings with their caring approach, from friends with unique attitude to colleagues with their novel work manners, you will realize that every individual is a teacher in his/her own way. If we are able to recognize this quality in every individual, we can learn valuable lessons for our own life. When we talk about every human being, it does not limit to our loved ones alone. Any random person on the street or acquaintance in our life journey can inspire us with something precious. This makes it essential to open our eyes and ears to the world around us. Though bad elements in our surrounding may disturb us to a great extent, it is necessary to hunt for the good factors and make our life happy.
While formal education and systematic curriculum lays the foundation of our life story, practical knowledge through observation adds to the overall package. We must inculcate the habit of looking at good aspects in every individual, while making an attempt to incorporate it in our own books. Many a times, we realize our shortcomings and weaknesses, yet fail to improve them. During such experiences, it is beneficial to look at people around us and learn from their approach to similar situations. Though we may know about the right reaction to a situation, we may not be able to follow suit. Every person has some striking features in their personality that can pose as inspirational keynotes for others.
Qualities such as patience, punctuality, sincerity, obedience, maturity, enthusiastic nature, calm behavior along with several other virtues can come across as practical examples for us to follow.
What are the advantages of learning valuable pieces from those around us?
1. As every individual is unique, there are some special behavioral features that can inspire us to replicate it in our life.
2. Unique elements of nature exhibited by our closed ones or those around us can guide us how to react to certain situations in life.
3. Such unique qualities turn into practical examples that can stay embedded in our system for a lifetime.
4. Recognizing these aspects and respecting their presence can benefit us in the long run.
Look around for inspiration and learn from the masters. Not everything in life is meant to be studied through books and pens. Some things come as surprise lessons from people and their tales.
-Lavanya
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